by Giggsy » Wed Sep 26, 2012 2:58 pm
Hey guys, I've just found myself in this same situation. I did something regrettable a couple of nights ago, thinking someone was someone else and found myself in the situation where they were asking me for 350 USD or they will send the recording of me to my fb friends, which he had linked to me, even mentioning my brothers names to try and scare me. I told them I couldn't afford that and they (obviously being on my fb) told me they knew what job I had. They eventually lowered to 200. Panicking I signed up for paypal and dished it out. He then asked for a further 50 which i eventually managed to make him drop. He then went on to say if i chargedback I was fucked. The next day paypal says the payment is under investigation as I need to give them more details (most likely due to being a new member). So he didn't actually get any money!!!! I then find myself with an email off him saying you charged back now you're fucked. and a contact request of them saying you tried to charge back! I haven't accepted this request or replied to his emal. I've also reported the video on the site he used. I have deactivated my facebook, but I'm still so worried he will send it out of spite to my friends somehow, and I'll have to go through that embarrassment as well as hurting/letting down people I am close too. He only mentioned my brothers names in the conversation, and I have told the full story to my one brother for his help as we have a close relationship. The whole situation has left me feeling so sick that I have hardly eaten anything the past 2 days and am sick when trying too. How long would you recommend leaving my facebook deactivated before this threat goes away? its been 24 hours since he sent me that email saying i'm "fucked". But i was thinking more like 2 weeks before i was to think about getting it back up. He also said he was part of an organisation, I don't know if this means he was working in a group or he was just trying to scare me further. I have details I can post of him on here, but I'm also worried he might somehow see this or something and post the video to get back at me! I can't believe I let myself get into this position.