by jj123456 » Fri Aug 31, 2012 9:55 am
Hey guys, wanted to tell you about the situation I am in.
So I recently made a stupid move while under the influence and in an exhuasted moment where I don't even recall everything that happened. My brain was gone of any inhibition. And in that mood I had decided it was a not bad idea to go on cam with a girl I had randomly chatted with. In a moment of why not do it once since I never had and not having my brain really working and falling for her words and appeal, I was suckered into also giving a show back. This show was recorded without my knowledge. The girl told me she was going to get a toy and came back on cam showcasing the footage of me. Then told me the usual about how I would have to pay or she would send it to all my facebook contacts (yeah she got to my fb list, was too trusting all this time from hiding it... and I was considering doing it the other day, also side note I have a lot of contacts on fb, many of which are private, so for some reason I do not see the worth in her doing this, especially profitability wise because the time investment would be massive), so she asked me how much the video was worth to me, I explained after just paying school fees and all I did not have much, I told her $100, which she agreed to. Gave me the info about all the western unions in the general city i live in. She sent me her info about the sending of the money and told me to send it the next day, go on cam with the recipt, and she would go on cam deleting the video. I even brought up the idea of a copy which she claimed she was not stupid enough to do.
So after finally sobering up and getting my brain working I also sent a message asking to email me the video.
I spoke to a few friends explaining the situation, many believe it is all a bluff as they feel there is no reason she would have to upload if I will not send cash. So I went on with my next day after a light sleep, considering to call western union and speak to them, which then i decided had no point. I sat back and just came to terms with the fact there was nothing really I could do. The person messaged me again on fb (they are on a full restricted list and will be blocked ASAP just want to monitor what they do on fb so I can hold onto that info to send to anyone to report all together. Especially since one of the conditions she laid out was to not delete her. (sorry for me jumping around a bit I am partially sleep deprived and have partial insomnia and just am not fully in a clear mind). So when she messaged me again and we went back and forth me asking for the video over email, she changed her answer multiple times to this question during this conversation and continued in caps most of the time. She spoke to me saying I had betrayed her trust and lied to her about paying. I told her I was now sober so needed to see the video as the night before I was not in a right mindset. And how could I give anything if I can't even have it sent to me to view it. She offered to again only show me over cam. Which I found quite weird. So after a bit she claimed that it was not possible over email because it would block it, then she changed it to not wanting to, then to yes I will send if you send the money then changed to no she will not send because then i could track her by the email as a proxy was set for her skype and fb only. She even told me about a girl she knew that is now in jail for doing it, and sent me a video she uploaded on youtube which held 18 views when I opened and was up for 3 weeks, yet my buddy did one report and it was gone in a second. She also told me now it was $500 I would have to send for pissing her off. I again just continued asking for the email and because she brought up the fact that the only word that mattered to her was honour as in honouring your word (weird someone says that who tries blackmailing you eh?) She also said she would ruin my life (no offence but a video of me on cam drunk playing with myself I don't think will ruin my life... I'm in college... this is like american pie... I already have made some jokes of it thanks to a few friends cheering me up about the situation looking at it from a lighter side so I wouldn't feel crap about it) So I have waited till the extension will go message her over skype once just asking to see the clip so I can maybe record it myself, just to lighten the damage myself as I can then send a small clip of the beginging to youtube so that they can make sure it gets recognized and blocked right away at upload (myspace used to work that way with music if you uploaded a song with an intro that was similar and normally you can delete photos on sites when it comes to copyright and since youtube takes that serious it is worth a try, especially since she revealed the secret to uploading it on youtube which was to start the video with just the laptop and the persons face so it gets by the checkers, see sometimes making them frustrated gets you some info and hopefully this can be useful to you guys, the police and youtube for now setting up their checkers to block it quick). So with that said, I am just going to then say upload it, your not getting money from me, I will not fund this kind of practice so upload it. It might make me money so hope your ok with that. And then block them over everything and I will send you guys all the contact information I have of the person. I will be also calling the police when I wake up reporting this whole situation and giving them all the info they need. I would rather stand up to this person and have some embarassment for a bit then given in and let more people get hurt like this. She told me she has done this to over 100 people... how can someone live with themselves doing this... also one friend asked me if I was worried it would come back in my future and I said to them why would they keep it and reupload over and over to get no money only risk themselves getting arrested faster and if they get caught getting charged for more crimes?
A little bit of thinking goes a long way and I will update you all on this situation... I'm hoping this person just leaves my friends alone and may hopefully stop this soon. Maybe the standing up will do good maybe it will get me attacked worse... I made a mistake and I hope it will help others