I am new here, I worry so much about an encounter that I made recently through e Harmony. I was so naive that I don't really trust my instinc.
I don't know if he is really a scam, because he has very sweet demeanor, he assured me he is real even though i doubt it very much, I have shares so much thing about myself to him, shared about my past and my doubt and even I let him see me naked while i cannot see him via video phone.
his story is similar to any story in the scam, very busy man, with lots of business and have a daughter, he assured me many times that he is real, even though i tried to question a lot, and demand him to meet in real life, but he said he is in the site somewhere out there in Russia, and just yesterday he asked me to transfer money for him, not that he asked me to transfer money to him, but for him. everything is so convincing, but I do notice that the bank url he shared is not a normal bank website. he mentioned that his chemical stuff was stuck at Russia duty and he was at the site unable to access internet etc. he even asked me to check the shipping and send the email to the shipping company to ask how much is the fee to release the chemical.
It's westpac bank NZ, he gave me this URL : https:/ /www.wpdltd-nzd.com/eng-nz/, while west pack NZ is http:/ /www.westpac.co.nz/ I was so suspicious. but I closed my eyes, just want to proof he is not that kind of person.
then it was failed, because the account said to be dormant, even though the balance is 600k over, I was really scared actually, and he sounds so nervous.
then the next day, he finally say the word 'can you borrow me money and i will pay you back after everything done' I really was in doubt but he consoled me and he said he won't force me to, but i do some checking with the westpack bank and the shipping company he sent to me it seems all fake...
and i confront him, he was really offended, then he said I was humiliating him.
You know the feeling... of being confused, what if I am wrong, what if he was the one who got scammed by someone else, what if he really needs help, what if I am just being such stupid...
Please help... anything, words or anything.
thanks a lot.