by bluenami » Mon Aug 19, 2019 5:53 pm
Matched up with someone on Tinder a few days ago with a generic name of Karen. I was pretty apprehensive about her as she was too pretty to be on Tinder but chatted with her anyway. We got to talking about sex then moved to do a voice call over Viber to talk about our experiences. Things got heated and it eventually got to phone sex (not full-on but just enough to arouse both of us). In the middle of the "conversation", her line got cut off. I was unable to call her again after that.
Next day, I matched with someone on Tinder again and similar to Karen, she looked too pretty to be in Tinder so I was also apprehensive. We moved our discussion to Snapchat (a platform I'm not too familiar with) and started exchanging selfies (nothing sexual). She started asking for my IG which I initially didn't give but I eventually did give my surname. This was after checking some posts on Reddit that snapchat snap selfies likely guarantees her being real plus her account having over 17K snaps already. She also showed me a screenshot of her FB account for added trust. Despite sending my nickname and last name, she wasn't able to add me on IG (something about her IG not working) so she asked for my FB. Thankfully I always have my FB deactivated (productivity thing) so she wasn't able to find me there as well. A few moments later, she unfriended me and that was it,
After some thorough search as I got paranoid afterwards, I saw her name and some stories of her in this site.
I never sent anything remotely sexual to the 2nd girl but she basically has my name. For the 1st one, my fear is that she may have recorded our call but I don't think it can be tied to me at all (I have a deep voice and never mentioned any name during the whole thing). The first one has also never contacted me in any way after our last conversation. My question is, do I have anything to be worried about? For precaution, all my social media accounts are already deactivated.