I have just found out that the person I have been messaging, and yes, sending money to.....is a scammer. I would like to think a very good one, but I have to acknowledge my stupidity.
Name on match.com was Alex Coyne
Used WhatsApp 07451241252
Address given in Oxford UK
Went to Istanbul on business....email now traced to Vienna.
Money paid into Turkish bank account AKBANK Gulbag
Names mentioned in correspondence and in recipients for cash
Elif Ulku O