From: Jurgen Bischoff <jurgenb018@hotmail.com>
To:
Sent: Wed, Jan 9, 2019
Subject: Jurgen from pof
Good morning,
Thanks for the email id and sorry for my late response. I am so happy to hear from
you and I must thank you for responding to my email requesting you to contact me
through my private email. I am not really into all these online stuff. My daughter
registered the dating site and I managed to use it to reach you. I tried to check if
there is any need for that and I saw your profile while searching on the site and
read a little about you and think we have something in common, then I could not wait
to email you after talking to myself for about 20 minutes.
Well, enough of that, let me tell you little about myself like I told you when I
emailed from the pof site, I am a fund manager with British owned investments
company (Esteem Capital Investments) but resides here in Vinton, Virginia. I am a
widower and I lost my precious wife 6 years ago, I will tell you more about her in
my next letter to you, or when we do meet in person, face to face. I have a daughter
who lives away from home. Kathleen is in aviation school in Germany. I do prefer
the "old fashioned" method of meeting someone in person, but we live in an age where
the internet definitely expands the circle of who you might meet today. I am a
German and I was born and raised in Germany before moving here in the states 10
years ago. My mom still live in Germany with her only sister. I relocated here
because of my job which landed me in Fresno California at first for some years, and
now I am here in Vinton, Virginia. I must tell you that I love it here in the
states, and have decided to spend the rest of my life here with that special lady if
I ever find her. I am tired of being alone and by myself.
Never sure where to start with a "stranger?" Lol. What do you want to know about me
? Like I stated in my online dating message to you, I am new to online dating and
was encouraged by my daughter and my mom. They are tired of seeing me being alone.
Anyway, Let me not bore you on how I got to the site and rather tell you more about
me which was what I promised you on the dating site when I requested you to contact
me via my personal email. I will also attach my pictures in this email which was
what I promised you when I contacted you.
Well, I am outgoing and active, energetic and positive man. I am a bit of a clown,
and playful, I love to laugh even at myself. I am a Fun loving, humble man that is
neat. Oooh, I almost forgot to mention that I love to cook than to starve. I am
positive on everything that life brings to me. I believe that I am where I am at
this point in my life for a good reason. I am a honest and caring person who is very
loyal to those around me. I have respect for every creature. I have traveled
extensively in the course of doing my work and have learned a lot of cultures. I
consider myself to be a gentleman with good values and financial stable.
I need someone whom we can start out as a good friends and see where it goes.
Compatibility and friendship are gems to relationship. The rest of the journey would
be enchanting to have a best friend, lover that I can rely on, and to find out that
we are meant to be for each other would just make life complete and worth living
every moment. I have to stop here so that I will have another thing to say in my
next email, I will like you to tell me more about you. I wanted to write more but it
seems I have rambled enough right now, and have bored you with a long note, lol, ask
me anything you need to know about me, and I will be so glad to answer you. So tell
me something about you. Have a wonderful day. Hope to hear from you soon!
Regards,
Jurgen
From: Jurgen Bischoff <jurgenb018@hotmail.com>
To:
Sent: Thu, Jan 10, 2019
Subject: Re: My life in a nutshell
Good morning ,
Thank you for the email and I appreciate that a lot. It will be nice to be
communicating and get to know each other better before we schedule for our meeting
soon. Because I will love to see the woman that I am communicating with in person.
Though I have a meeting scheduled in Dallas for the past two weeks, that is what I
am working on right now as I will be leaving tomorrow evening to Dallas. I work from
home here to meet investors and negotiate with them on behalf of my company. There
is a lot we need to talk in person and get to know each other better. I am a very
simple and open person that you will come to like. I need a relationship since I do
not have the intention of going back to live in Germany, but can always visit mom
and my aunt since she does not like it here in the states.
I am not expecting much in a relationship than to be happy and make my partner
happy. I am not really after facial beauty but the good heart, meaning the inner
beauty of a woman. I hate lies and disrespectful people in my life, I will like my
woman to always be proud of me, no matter where we are and the people around us. I
am not perfect and I can make mistakes, then always be open and tell me, and I will
take correction.
I need to be with one person who will be my last; I mean I don’t want to get hurt or
hurt anyone. I think I like you and want to see if we can share a very great level
of chemistry. I believe that life should be lived so that you always have a good
story to tell, so in that spirit searching for adventure and the one woman that will
be my soul mate forever. I also love the simple things in life, going to dinner (or
making it at home).
I just want to write you to let you know that you have been on my mind since we met
online. I am very much interested in building a solid relationship with you if only
you wish so. I know that you and I can be the best of friends while getting to know
more about each other. You know it takes a lot to find true relationship these days.
I am sure that someday, soon we will meet and see how much of love we can share in
person. I need someone who will appreciate me for everything that I am. I do have
bad habits I know I haven't told you that (smile), I sometimes eat from the pot if I
do the cooking myself and bite my nails too if there is something going wrong in my
life.
Just want to share this with you like I promised in my previous email, my late wife
passed away in a very bitter way that I will never forget. But I think I really need
to move on with life like my mom always tell me. She had Renal Cell Carcinoma of the
kidney and apparently had it for years not known to anyone. It’s a sneaky form of
cancer and no one knows they have it until it hits the lungs. That is what happened.
Then it hit her brain. She didn't want any life support and it took her some days to
go. I just got up and went back and sat down and I think I just said to the room “I
want what Rita wants" If you could have seen her smile. I crawled into her arms and
lay by her. She chose Hospice. Before she went into a coma she said" I will be with
you always, and I will love you always" The words of Jesus. She always read the
bible. I came home. Went a little nut and ran back to the hospital. I begged her to
take treatment and she said "you can only win the battles you can win I need to go"
omg, I hate remembering this.
I am just telling you all these for you to know the kind of man that you are getting
yourself involved with. My late dad used to say that first impression matters in
anything we do in life; honestly I have good impression and intention about you. I
was very happy to hear from you again. All I want is someone to share the rest of my
life with because if I have everything and have no love to share with someone, then
I have nothing. I know God has blessed me with the material things I need in life.
Life is really boring without a partner. I know this from my experience over the
last 6 years and I am not getting anymore younger to just live alone. I have faith
in God. I believe that what matters in a relationship is the trust, sincerity,
kindness, understanding, and ability to forgive each other.
I would be the happiest man on the planet earth to be happy again. I actually took
the portfolio of managers job with Esteem Capital Investments when my wife died,
because I needed sometime to keep busy and more occupied and focus. But at long run
I started feeling for myself and I found out I need that special lady in my life to
complete my life. Thank God my daughter took that step because it gave me the
opportunity to meet you now and start this communication.
I think at this stage I should tell you more about me, so that you will know me
better. People do say that I have an accent, but all I know is that I speak English
fluently. Lol, I believe laughter is a very important part of a relationship. I
enjoy spring and fall weather and just being outdoors, going to the beach, concerts,
live music, sporting events, weekends. I try to eat healthy and exercise. I believe
in the concept of love and marriage. I believe having fun matters most with who you
are with, not necessarily what you are doing! I feel very young both physically and
mentally. I understand we both had some good and worst experiences in our previous
relationship but we should try to let the past go and focus in the future. I hope we
can always talk and know each other better. Life is too short for someone to be
alone like my mom always tell me.
Well, just ask me whatever you want to know about me. I believe that communicating
here will help us know little about each other before we can meet soon, maybe next
weekend.
I will stop here till I hear from you again and I think I have bored you with
another long email. You sound like someone I would like to know and free to share
anything with. You can take a look at my company site and understand what I really
do. (http:/ /www.esteem-capital.com) I am looking forward to hearing from you soon. Have a
brighter day ahead of you!
Regards,
Jurgen
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