Basically he got my contact thru Tinder and then he deleted the match on Tinder. Only after 2 months later, he started the chat me up via Whatsapp.
He wished me good morning and good night for a week but when he started to send sweet messages during Valentine's day, i start to wonder whether he's genuine and googled his number: +12064570416 (scam)
I didn't ask him on his other social account nor email. I have no blocked him yet as I want to see his response after i ignored him
. Today he sent me a pic profile of himself.
Hope this can help others.
Below are the messages from him:
1. Spent it in Korea beside my sick mom, but I'm still here for few weeks ahead
2. I was born and raised in the US, but I'm a mixed race from HK and USA
3. Sorry I'm a mixed race from HK and Korea, my typing board made a mistake but I'm a YS citizen
4. Oh yeah? Ok ! How long have you been using tinder?
5. Less than 2 months I think, and are you talking to a lot of people over it?
6. My friend introduced me to tinder actually saying that it can be a good place to find my future wife, so I signed into it, and you are the only person even I was talking on tinder if you remember I've told you that I do t often come on tinder
7. Yeah my friend who introduced me to it met his wife on it, me now they are happily married
8. Yes as said, but always believe in yourself and see the positive part of everything
9. I'm 51 years old this year and you?
10. I was married before and I'm divorced 7 years ago
11. My idea for my future wife would be someone who is both my best friend and my soulmate, someone I can laugh with and enjoy life someone with compassion and optimism, Kind and understanding.
12. An honest person with a good character and integrity. An intelligent professional with motivation and goals and also a lady who we can build each other.
13. My wife had an affair with one of my friend when MSF posted me to work in Europe, and I stayed there for three months, this is what leads to my divorce
14. My wife's phone, I did not check at all, I was just close to her phone then my friend messaged her, so I just wanted to check on time because I had meeting that and I found that
15. What are you looking into your future husband?
16. Ok I see, I was so caught up with my job as well, for the past ten years I've been travelling over and over for work, I'm retiring soon after my last contract with MSF and I'm about to open my new clinic I'm even working on that actually
17. No, in Malaysia, I've been living in Malaysia for 7 years and my ex wife also is from Malaysia
18. In Kuala Lumpur
19. I started this process since 2016 and thanked god today I have gotten the admission with the plan and which basically, all the documentation with the plan are almost obtained, including all the legal entities and the tax ID and insurances there in Malaysia
20. Malaysia is truly a peaceful to me, I've been living there and love the environment and everything
21. If you do not mind we can talk tomorrow, it's pretty late here
22. Good morning, how are you? You might be sleeping by now but just wake up on time and have breakfast
23. Oh ok, yes few weeks ahead then after that I'll go back to US
24. In Seattle, have you been there before?
25. Ok well, I'll talk to you later! I have some studs to do, have a wonderful day and don't forget to eat, be good
26. how did your day go?
27. Was pretty good, took my mom out and we had a good time together
28. I'm working on my project on my own, it sounds like I'm not on holiday, my clinic will be opened by April
29. No, only my mom and my step dad are living here, I also have a step sister but studying medecine in Melbourne
30. I did not understand the question? Come again
31. Yeah, that's why, I was in the USA when we matched, but it was a good match because my ex wife is from Malaysia, I've lived there for 10 years and my clinic will be based in Malaysia
32. Not only orthopaedic there will be other specialisations as well
33. Ok, I'll have to leave you I have to work on some upcoming projects, we can talk tomorrow
35. Hello how are you? Sorry for contacting you late, I've really been busy lately
36. I'm a surgeon orthopaedic and working under MSF USA
37. Yes, but I'm working to open my clinic soon
38. How was your day treating you?
39. Good morning, how are you? Hope that you had a good sleep and you might be getting ready for work? Have a wonderful day, mostly don't forget to eat
40. Ok, I always wake up at 6am, get ready to go and run and come back around 7am
41. Yes, it is midnight here, what time you work tomorrow?
42. Yeah, but I'm going to bed soon, it's a lot of work to do, to analyse, cooperate
43. Once I'm able to open it over April I'll be free
44. Good morning beautiful, how was your night? You might be sleeping by now but just message me when you can
45. I'm always home because I'm going back on Saturday to the US, I have a meeting to attend
46. Yeah sure, sorry I'm being busy with my mom
47. Hello beautiful how are you? Just came back from downtown had to meet one doctor that wants to join my clinic. How did your day go? Still at work right?
48. Yeah truly, no he's from India and he's also an orthopaedic surgeon
49. Yeah that's true, with the opening of my clinic I'll be free, I'll have to work but not like I used to be
50. 1968, I'm 51 this year
51. I was married for 7 years from 2005 to 2012
52. 6 years that's the gap between us, she will be 45 this year
53. We rarely talk, once in a while to say hi to each other
54. 2 years ago I've thought about it and I've said that maybe to wait while I'm trying to open my clinic it'll be a good idea
55. I'm happy yes, because I've learned from my past mistakes and I know a future holds a better plan for me
56. I'm planning to buy a house over there
57. But I want it to be downtown
58. Yes, around the Kuala Lumpur Convention Center, but the agent told me it's expensive and I told him just to look for it
59. My main concern is the clinic to be set up, I want to remarry and live with my wife in there that's my plan
60. Jalan Tun Razak road
61. Ok, it's pretty late here, I'll try to rest then we can talk tomorrow!
62. Goodnight and you sleep tight
63. Good morning beautiful how are you? You might still be sleeping, just message me when you are wake up
64. Oh also love my job
65. Yeah, but for me will be reduced soon
66. My time will be devoted to my wife as I've told you, I will work but not as much I used to do
67. Yeah of course, don't forget that I was born and raised in the US, so I've been eating that almost my whole life
68. Ok, Im talking to my mom, im showing her how to take some pills
69. I've explained that to her about 100 times but she's still asking me ??
70. Yeah, but nobody is here only her and her husband! I have a step dad did I tell you that?
71. Seriously he's so confused him, but he tends to understand now, I've told him if I leave how are you going to do with your wife? Because I'm leaving soon and he said he has understood
72. My mom 75 and her husband 80
73. Ok, from my mom and dad side I'm the only one, but from my step dad I have one step sister and she's also studying medecine in Melbourne
74. Longer, my mom is from Korea and she loves her country haha she's really conservative
75. He had passed away since
76. It's ok, this is life and we all are meant to die one day
77. By April my clinic will be opened
78. After the US I'm going to Aleppo for my last contract if you remember
79. Yeah, so scary right?
80. It's my work I've to do it
81. No, it's not but we will be in the military camp for work
82. The soldiers or the kids wounded from the work and everything
83. We go for the kids even
84. This will be my second time, I've been to several wars zone like Iraq, Palestine...
85. My goal in life has always been to help people ever since I was a kid, that's why I've chosen to be a doctor and by the way my colleagues and I are working to create an NGO so that we could help the underprivileged and helpless people around the world, like kids in Africa in need or ear countries
86. Yeah, but I promise that it's a tough work and so pitiful to see people
87. Whatever you do for people is not a waste, just be good to people and fear the janitor as you treat the boss, they are all human
88. No, i prefer to do all my work in once and go to bed or I would not peacefully sleep
89. I'll try to sleep now, we talk tomorrow! Goodnight and you sleep tight
90. Good morning beautiful how are you? How is your sleep? Because I know you are still sleeping, have a good wake up
91. A valentine is a gift to the heart, a friend to the spirit, a golden thread to the meaning of life.
92. Pure love is a willingness to give without a thought of receiving anything in return! Happy Valentine's Day to you Beautiful
93. Thank you, wish I could have spent it with you today
94. Just know that every day is a Valentine's Day as long as you understand each other and see the same thing
95. I'm coming to Malaysia we will be celebrating this
96. You know why I want to open my clinic? To have time for my future family, my wife mostly because that was one of the reason why I was divorced for the first time so I've learnt from my mistake
97. Once the clinic is opened, I'll be free and will be working for myself
98. good morning dear sorry I couldn't message you as usual because my mom fainted by night and we took her to the hospital I've even slept over
99. Yeah, she's still at the hospital though, I came home
100. This is what I'm trying to sort it out, she's coming back home this afternoon as said at the hospital after that I'll see
101. I'm talking to my mom, I've told her that I should postpone but she told me to go as I've some unfinished works and have to attend a meeting and everything
102. What do you think?
103. Her tension went high, you know she has hypertension and that hypertension led to the stroke disease
104. My stepdad also is 85 years, so he can't take as much, there's someone here at home that look after them
105. Yeah, I'll sort it out! Have a goodnight
106. Hey sunshine good morning, how are you this morning? You still rolling over bed I know ??, you sleepy head! I'm just missing you, message me when you are able to talk ??
107. My beautiful I know you are still sleeping, but just want to let you know that I'm off for lunch, I'm having pasta and chicken, I miss you and will wake you up
108. I took this pic only for you, one colleague took it for me at work, message me as soon as you sure here
109. Good morning how are you? You are sleeping I know but just want the first message from your phone to be my text and the early birds are already up, you sleepy head ??, text me when you feel free to talk hugs ??