by firefly » Thu Mar 27, 2014 7:23 pm
mufan59,
We had this conversation more than once before. If you have any doubt he is really a scammer, try to read, please, the highlighted parts from that chat posted above. 3 years with the scammer is a long period of time and right now you are more willing to believe a fake persona instead trusting your own brain. Every time when he is pushing you for more money he shows you who he really are and which type of person he really is. He start asking for money after the first 2 weeks you spend together - if you dont want to accept that, read again your correspondence with him.
As long as you keep the communication with the scammer, he will play you like a dice and you will do everything he is asking you to do, dreaming about a love that does not exist. He do not care about you. Someone having real feelings for you can not abuse you in the way he is doing. He will never stop. You are the only one able to do it, if you are willing to do it.
Of course he will tell you he is the real one. Of course he will tell you his pictures are stolen and used by others. Those pictures he claims were stolen 3 years ago from his dating profile are abused in scams long before that. And, as you can see, are used again and again. Once used for scam, a stolen picture will be used again. Most of the posts in this topic are scammers contacting me while using those stolen pictures - it is no joke about it and those characters are really scammers. "Your man" is just another one of them, nothing else.
At this stage, you believe everything he is telling you because you want to believe. You can not imagine your life without him. Stop and try to think for a second: do you really need a fake love you need to pay for it and a romance happening just as long as you send money to Africa? If you do, how long do you believe you are able to pay for this fake romance, before damaging yourself entirely and putting your own life in danger?
It is your life and you are the only one able to decide what you really want to have in your life and how you want that life of yours to be. Moving forward in this fake relationship will cause you just pain, heartbreak and financial losses. It is not to late to stop it and to save yourself. In a way or another way, sooner or later you will find out we are right. When you will have no more money to give, he will be back asking you to receive money from other victims and to re-send those money to him, involving you in money laundery and sending you to jail. While there, with your life destroyed, he will be online, playing the same game with another one and another one. At that moment, you will understand what was all about... but it will be to late...
Help yourself by helping others - report your scammer here.Google can be your best friend;use it if you have doubts about someone met online. If someone met online only asks for money, no matter what reason, it´s 100% scam.
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