by Fortunate » Wed Jun 05, 2013 11:58 am
Hello everyone,
Yesterday, I was blackmailed just like everyone else in the same exact way.
When the scammer showed me my video, and he sent me my friends list (with links) the first name was my brother btw.
He told me exactly "I will destroy your life so listen to me carefully and follow my steps so we can make a deal calmly, it’s all about money"
I gazed for 3 seconds, I didn’t care about any of my friends or my family, I can explain it to them if they saw my video, and we would move on after some embarrassment.
what I cared about is my job, he got my work place from face book, and threatened to post it there, so all what i was thinking about is how i am going to explain to 6500 colleagues about that video!
i took a breath for another 3 seconds, and I started immediately to think about the mistake i have done, and there is completely nothing to do about it, and there will be no chance to delete that video even if I sent him all what i own.
I started then immediately to have thoughts about how i can recover from this, and how i can easily start a new job or even leave the country, i regained strength after few moments after the shock, and I sent to him "Do you really think that I care?"
He was surprised and replied "Really are you serious?"
I replied back " yeah I am 100% serious, please go ahead and post it everywhere, i have nothing to fear or lose I will get over it"
He replied back "are you really serious, I will destroy your life, send the video to your colleagues, to your girlfriends, family"
I replied back "yes please go ahead and do it"
The he typed my brother’s name, and told me ok i sent to this contact your video, every 10 minutes I will send it to anther 2
I told him please go ahead and I have nothing to offer or negotiate with you, good luck in spreading my video.
He replied back " man please help me I need money I am from **** and I need **** amount of money please help me I promise I won’t send it"
I told him if you wanted help you could have asked for it in a different way and I would have helped you for sure.
He told me please I beg you I need your help send me some money please
I told no way, he replied back I won’t destroy your life I still didn't send it to that contact
so i told yeah I don’t care even if you send it, so he replied, so are you going to send cause I didn't send it, I told him yes I will send you ZERO money, good luck, then I blocked him immediately.
after that, I started to shit bricks, I was so stressed, I thought I ruined my life by a silly Skype video call, and I couldn't sleep, and today I am still stressed so much, so I started today to read about these things online and I found this site.
i am very glad that i acted in a way similar to what is advisable here, and this is very helpful, reading the stories relieved me somehow.
I contacted my brother today, he received nothing, and till now nothing is posted i didn’t even change my name or privacy settings, and I didn't get any contact by him
I really wish if I still have his details but i deleted all his stuff already, but the name was Laura Laura from England.
I wanted to say something important for everyone, this is extremely stressful, but come on, a single video wont ruin our lives, keep it up, stay positive, it will help releasing some stress, and no scammer really has the time to ruin your life and send the link to all your contacts, it’s a hit and run (hopefully) and if you act correctly it will fade immediately.
Don’t insult your scammer, don’t negotiate, just stop communicating, he will immediately move to someone else. Its business and time is money.
I hope my story helps, and reading these stories really relieves the stress and confusion.
Regards